It's Not About Guns

Yes, it should certainly be a stringent process to procure a firearm.  However, guns aren’t the problem here.  The problem is that humankind is collectively oblivious to some basic tenets of human nature.  Unless & until we recognize the reality of “The Bad Seed”, we will continue to suffer horrific acts of malicious violence and other life-destroying deeds.

Most of us believe that humans are born good, and that some among us are made bad.  When someone does something as inconceivable as this, we unrelentingly search for something in the background of the perpetrator to explain it, typically blaming upbringing and/or some traumatic or triggering event.

In fact, some psychopaths or similarly personality disordered people on the psychopathy spectrum may well have been influenced by child abuse.  Since it is likely that those conditions are inherited, it is as likely that sometimes those on the spectrum raise children on the spectrum, so some will have been abused to some degree.  However, it is just as likely that some were raised by a parent who was merely a carrier, but not thusly afflicted, and who suffered no such abuse.

Whether or not someone on the spectrum was a recipient of abuse by a parent on the spectrum, s/he is still on the spectrum, and will behave in ways indicative of its inherent glibness, arrogance, and lack of empathy & conscience.  It is a neurological disorder for which there is currently no cure, nor even proven treatment to make those afflicted less dangerous to the rest of us.  Furthermore, even if or when such a “cure” were to be discovered, there’s the added conundrum unique to this disorder of motivation to seek or allow it by the disordered.  Afterall, s/he doesn’t know what s/he’s missing by lacking ability to love and feel empathy, so why would s/he want to be cured?  Indeed, s/he sees those of us who do feel the emotions of which s/he’s incapable as contemptible, a source of amusement, and to be used for their feelings.

This is not to say that the perpetrator in Connecticut on December 14^th was anywhere on the psychopathy spectrum, although, as an educated layperson on the subject, I highly suspect so.  It is to say that chances are excellent that psychopathy was involved somehow in his life, as even those who are not psychopathic but who commit heinous acts are typically the victims of them, sometimes even unwitting accomplices.

Just as a talking point:  How to Stop a Massacre

Ask Why of Those Who Know

By now most have read or heard about the Penn State University scandal involving a hoard of culprits covering up the alleged sexual abuse perpetrated by Assistant Coach, Gerald Arthur (Jerry) Sandusky.

The mother of Sandusky's “Victim #1” says she just wants to ask him, “Why?”

It is so frustrating that those victimized reliably & repeatedly express that.

Chances are in cases such as this that the perpetrator is a psychopath. There is no “getting to the heart” of a psychopath, because no matter how deep down one digs, there’s still no heart. There is no getting the truth from one, because they seldom tell it, and if they do, it’s for their own personal gain or to further harm others.

Ask, “Why,” but don't ask it of the psychopath; ask it of those who’ve been studying them and diligently searching for ways to proactively protect good & decent people from them with awareness and prevention.

Not only that, when we ask it merely feeds their pleasure at our pain. They feel only contempt for we weird loving people with empathy and a collective conscience. Pleading with them or expressing our grief just plays into their game, a side benefit to their devastating doings in a game they intend to win.